![]() “The passion just kept growing and intensifying and the rough sex kept getting rougher. There was never a desire to be each other’s ones, but there was safety and mutual respect. “When we started hooking up, it was a really warm and gentle kind of fire, and not in the sense that it was dinner and hand-holding. There were huge sparks with Alex right from the start. Cass recalls her roommate saying, “I think you two would have a lot of fun together.” When the relationship ended, her roommate put her in touch with a friend we’ll call Alex. The idea that she could love someone and yet physically be with other people and even have love for multiple people simultaneously was a powerful one, even if she wasn’t ready to pursue it while in that relationship. “We had a conversation where the person said to me, ‘I think I’m asexual.’ That was the first moment when I really thought about it, because I was very much in love with this person, but when it came to physical love and sexuality, we were on very different pages.” She recalls having an epiphany while in a relationship with someone she really loved. Violence isn’t always ill-spirited,” Cass adds. “Passion is definitely violent, but not necessarily angry. You don’t often hear passion described as a light misty rain. Things like love can be a very tender thing, but love can be also very fierce, very teeth-and-claws-and-lust.”Īs Cass points out, passion often associated with fire and not calm, rolling rivers. It’s forceful, but that’s not to say that it doesn’t take anyone else into consideration. “For me, passion is something that is by nature, violent. “In a way, kink is an expression of passion for me,” says Cass. ![]() When she told him that she started participating and exploring kink, he turned to her and said, “It feels like this has always been a part of you and just now has been able to surface.” It’s not for a Dom to judge what’s right or wrong – rather to take care of their sub.One of Cass’ friends really said it best. Some might need very little, while others might need a lot.
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